Love Love ♥

What is love? Definition of love? To people it's about falling in love. It's about the opposite sex. Love is like a basic of life. Sure everyone wants love. Who wouldn't? Yes, love makes you happy. The reason that makes you feel alive. Everyone will find their love. No matter what kind of love. Puppy love or true love. Sometimes people are asked to follow your heart when it comes to loves. And sometimes people are asked to follow your brain instead of your heart. I don't know because I haven't meet love even puppy love. Only crush. Maybe god wants be to be happy by waiting for my true love. But I don't really care. But of course I do want to be in love or basically be loved. Cause people around me opens out my eyes to see the bad & good  side effect of love. Of course one of the bad effect of love is heart broken or heart ache. No matter what friends are better. The truth, love is undefined.  To me, love isn't about falling in love with the opposite sex. Love can be anyone or anything. The old folks would say LOVE IS BLIND. Love really do make people blind. I'm dealing with some friends that are blind now. -.- Love can make you blind, ignoring the world and wasting money or time. Examples: 

1. You are too busy with your boyfriend, you forget or abandoned about your friends or family.
2. You love him so much you are willing to do anything even stupid things. 
3. You have to pay your full attention on him to keep him satisfied or happy. 
4. You'll talk about him all the time without asking how other people feelings. Sure your true listener won't mind but they also have their own day. Bad or good.
5. You keep texting him no matter you're spending time with your family or your besties. 

So, that's all I can think of now. I'm sure there's a lot more. But having a boyfriend or girlfriend isn't a bad thing. DUH! In life, everything has it's own pair. Ying and Yang. Bad and good. Ugly and pretty. Smart and stupid. Ok done with the pair. My point is learn to love everyone. Pay your full attention with the one who are right in front or beside you. Life isn't always about or boyfriend or girlfriend.  Sometimes we have to stay away from the things we love, and learn to appreciate the things we need. Appreciate everyone or anything that is in your life every second. But don't blame gravity when you're in love. Let love happens by itself. Don't be a slut or a whore just to find someone to love you. I'm suffering for my friends being in love. Not because they're happy because they get dumb when they're in love. I'm sorry but you are!
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